The first time doesn't have to be painful if you're prepared correctly. My first time was a bit uncomfortable but I enjoyed it and got pleasure from it a few minutes after starting. No sexual partner should ever be subjected to pain without previous consent.
I whimpered and moaned first time! He was 8” so bigger than her husband! It was THE most fantastic sexual thing I had done in years, she will have loved it when he was fully up her. Watch my first time it’s on my profile page